Consent: It's as simple as tea

When misunderstandings occur in sexual encounters, there could be many reasons, varying from misreading signals or misunderstanding what sexual behaviours are deemed desirable, to crossing the line into abuse of trust, power and control.

As humans grow and develop curiosities around sex and intimacy, it’s a natural to want to explore feelings and sensations whilst learning to trust others when most vulnerable. The important factors that can easily be missed in education or family conversations is the awareness explicit and informed consent, with this being a moment-to-moment process in which ‘no’ means ‘no’ and respecting each other’s decision if feelings change.

Whilst it’s important to recognise the religious and cultural context around sex, the following resource outlines consent with British cultural reference and humour in no better way than over a cup of tea. If you have a moment to put the kettle on, I’d encourage anyone who would be interested in learning how to cover the conversation around consent to share the simple and straight forward wisdom that is provided in this video. Thanks to, and shared by the campaign #Consentiseverything, as part of the Thames Valley Sexual Violence Prevention Group. 

Copyright ©2015 Emmeline May and Blue Seat Studios | www.consentiseverything.com

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